Thanks Jax. You are right. I shouldn't wish to be heartless but if I were it would be easy for me to detach and maybe even leave him. I mean sometimes I get really mad at how this is all going down and think I shouldn't let anyone treat me this way. But then, I made vows and I really meant it when I said for better or worse. So I will honour those vows and fight for my marriage as much as I can. More steady DB after baby is born for sure.
I'm more emotional during pregnancy but certainly I'm an emotional woman and I've disclosed that I have general anxiety (which doesn't help in these situations with H at all). I am the one wanting to ML, we haven't in 17 weeks and no other forms of intimacy either. It's hard for me and I also start wondering how long he, as a man, can last without it. For the record I do not believe he is cheating and so I don't think he's getting it anywhere else. He claims he is scared of hurting the baby (which may have been true initially bc I had some placenta issues but certainly we've been cleared my doctor to ML and I know it's more to do with his emotional state about our M).
This is soo hard. I will also pray for you and your family down there in FL! Have a great day. And let's try to keep the PMA and focus off our spouses.
Me 35 H 34 DS- newborn 8/13 T 8.5 M 7 H's EA - 10/11 INILWY 5/13 DBing 6/13 Don't know WTF to do 1/14
and no other forms of intimacy either. It's hard for me and I also start wondering how long he, as a man, can last without it. For the record I do not believe he is cheating and so I don't think he's getting it anywhere else. He claims he is scared of hurting the baby (which may have been true initially bc I had some placenta issues but certainly we've been cleared my doctor to ML and I know it's more to do with his emotional state about our M). 
