Yes, she really did. Told me that it's NOT ok that she be asking me to do the things she does like fixing things and texting me about the non important things. Said I won't be able to detach if she keeps on and it's not fair for her to ask me to do those things when she's telling me she wants a divorce. I'm not her Do boy anymore. Lol. I need to make appointment for regular because I easily backslide. It's a hard thing to say no to someone that you have spent 10 years saying yes to and wanting to make their life easier but it's making mine harder right now.
I like how you said tempeture check. I have heard that on hear before. Makes scence. Glad to hear its an ok thing to do. It gives me a date to wait for instead of nothingness. That's what causes me to ask when I shouldn't. Now that I have a set date to get a temp check then I believe I can focus better on detaching from it all. Thanks!


M:33
W:32
Married:8
Together:10
S:5,4 and 8 months
BD: 4/1/13
W move out day: 5/4/13
ILYBNINWY,WAS. No talk of wanting to save relationship