Speaking of the cats. Need some timely advice on this one!
She just texted me that she wanted to take the older cat (she hates the other one) and she wanted to come straight after work, and it's ok if I'm there (usually wants me to be somewhere else if she's picking stuff up).
We've never discussed splitting up the cats. She just assumed she'd take him, like she assumed she'd live in the new house and take the car.
I'd like more time with the cat as long as I'm here anyway. On the other hand, last time we went through this, letting her take our cat to her apartment was a way that I got to visit later, and let her see me looking good, in some new clothes, and looking trim. That surprised her a lot. And I kept the convo short and ended it and left without hanging out or being needy.
But, you know this time I've been answering all texts, too soon and with too much info. Maybe I should let this one go by. She can always ask again later....
