Tbh it sounds like we could just be arguing over the same stuff but with someone I have to pay to do it in their office.
The arguing part is up to you and W...
If you want solution-based, this isn't for you.
How are those boundaries coming?
Do you see how this IC issue is related to your boundaries.
You say you want a SBC, this person writes you back and says specifically that's not her model. So you come here and ask what we think instead of saying, I want SBC, this person doesn't do that so therefore, rejected. On to the next.
You Can do this.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss