Ruby-you are spot on in regards to finding those ways to finagle a meeting or even conversation. In my situation when I didn't obsess over this & felt detatched & just let that stuff happen I've had some of the best days.
That desire to just live is a great feeling & yes I agree that exhaustion probably does help.
Keep it up & continuing doing you. You do so well with GALing. I wish I had that.
M 34 H 35 D 7 D 6 M 10 T 14 Pregnant w/ boy/girl twins-due 12/2013 BD 12/15/12