HI Mooka..well I am not going to whack you..you already know you probably said some things that would have been better left unsaid..now you know..he seems to really need his space..let him be..and who cares about the address..heck I did not even know the street name until awhile back, and to this day (and I have spent 2 nights a week over at h apt. for the past month..) i still don't know the street number..and it is 4 blks away..so let that go..it is very hard..I know, but keep doing all the good stuff in yoour life, you sound like you have really been doing some neat stuff...you will be ok..