I had this response from a MC and I would like opinions on what he said as he is not solution based:

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Thank you for your email regarding Counselling.

I work as a person-centred Counsellor with individuals and couples. This approach isn't really solution based. In solution based Counselling goals are set and the Counsellor has some control and direction in how the sessions are structured. The way that I use Counselling is to offer a place which is accepting and understanding to you both so you both feel able to explore your difficulties and talk openly to one another. You are in control of the sessions in terms of content and direction.

I do feel that I am able to offer support to couples in your position but I often recommend an initial session of Counselling where we can all meet and discuss this further to see if we are suitable to work together. There is no obligation to continue after this session but it can often help in your decision about whether I am the right Counsellor for you.


Tbh it sounds like we could just be arguing over the same stuff but with someone I have to pay to do it in their office.


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