That sounds detached and calm to me, just living your life and letting events unfold. It sounds like a good place to be mentally. I wish I could become detached like that!!! SD is right, being so busy and worn out probably does help with detachment, but don't make yourself sick Ruby, get some rest.

Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17