Yes i have come to the same conclusion alothough part of me has been burying my head in the sand and just been hoping things would improve. I have gone back to the drawing board and started concentrating on me again maybe something i have let slip these last few weeks with the expected outcomes . Rightly or wrongly i spoke to W on Sunday night and told her that i was unhappy that i thought we had made little or no progress these last 3-4 weeks and mentioned that i had seen little or no effort from her to improve things on her side which she agreed on. She was ok with the most of it but did say she thought the pressure was mounting again to which i replied that i was happy to work on our R if we were both on the same path but not on my own, thats me standing up for what i believe. She sent me a text later that night saying she was glad i had spoken my mind and that we should discuss the next night a way forward. This didnt happen monday or last night but i am not pushing it just pulling back and getting on with my own thing. She has been different since and suggested we go for drinks after work on thursday and even asked if i wanted to do something 'just the two of us' for my birthday on friday, the big 40 I declined because i wanted to do something with her and the kids which is the truth and she was fine about it. We go on holiday on saturday for 2 weeks in the sun and this has been something i have been looking forward to for weeks however now i am starting to get cold feet and maybe not quite looking forward to it as much. Thanks again Mr Bond
Me: 39 W: 33 Son:7 Daughter:4 Its Over: March 7th 2013 Moved back home Mid June, trying to make it work
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