Blindsided

[chl0901]

Hi kate's_place, you're right - I do have a lot of expectations of my H that are not being met right now because I am comparing him now to who he used to be. I think I will schedule a girl's night soon which will be much needed and fun! I will also make sure to smile more.

I honestly do not know what he's told OW about us at this point, but you're right, I am mind reading. I do know that he has talked about our relationship with her in the past though so I assumed he has been again. It just drives me nuts to know they have been talking so much and spending time together (he'll take her on "dates" but not me!).