I agree with everything kate's place has said! I think the vacation will be good as well. I often think I don't spend enough alone time with my H. For the past 6 years it has been all about the children, and we have not had much time for each other, just to hang around.
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.