Sorry that you're going through the same thing. We only have a 60 day period here, so I guess I was lucky H waited as long as he did before he filed.
I came to realize that XH wouldn't be able to even consider the possibility of working on us until he got the D and was able to experience exactly what it means for us to not be together.
I don't know if we will ever reconcile, but I knew that it could't happen until he lost me completely and dealt with that.
I'll look into the group you mentioned. I've been busy with work and school. I just started going to a new church and they have a group that I meet up with before the service starts each week. It feels good to have a place to go and people to talk to every week.
M36 XH34 M-5 T7 4/11 H confused 5/11 ILYB 6/11 OW discovered 7/11 I move out, OW over 5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file 9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3 3/13 H/OW break up H files 4/13 D 6/18/13
