I've decided the thing she has done that really bothers me is that she stopped wearing her wedding rings. Initially it was because her workouts were making them dig in to her hand, which she did develop a blister from it. She would initially take them off for her workout and put them back on after she was done. Then she just quit putting them back on and would leave them in her center console. I found them there and took them out, told her I didn't want them stolen out of her car. I took them inside and set them on the dresser, but a few days later I found she had just moved them to her jewelry box.