So, a few things: In response to your response to me. H is not going to fulfill your LL right. Unfortunately this trip is one way. You have a lot of expectations that will drive you crazy. Like most of us you keep looking for the person you married. Sometimes you find them sometimes you don't. If you act like this is a new person with new behaviors the. You do not try to reconcile past behavior and emotion with the stranger WAS is.
You are doing everything for H. Exercise, haircut, etc. again, we all have been there. They notice but they won't tell you. My suggestion is you get out of house once in a while. " I'm headed to dinner with so and so. Girls night." See ya later okay? And smile. All the time. It was my little " everything is super cool and zen smile that made H comment.
Stop asking for sex giving hugs or kisses. Period. Give the boy some space. Dont be cold just give him space. Record reactions like an experiment to see what works
How do you know he is sharing everything with OW?? You don't. It's just crazy making. Every time I have mind read I was wrong.
I think the vacation will be good. No expectations.
