Well then, I say take the time to decide. You have the say whether he stays or goes.

Maybe tell him you need some time to decide what you want. I think that is more than fair or rational.

I would have blown up too. These guys really push us to our limits.

Can a friend take the kids for an hour or two so you can get calm and think?

Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me

~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."