The Show Must Go On

[BrightFuture]

Linda, I would gladly punch your H in the eye too, with your permission, of course.

Mexican girl was not in the picture at the time of BD. He hooked up with her months later when he was in our vacation home. At the time of BD he was in another state, working. The number I confronted him about showed on the phone records a lot. I know that he has lots of “buddies” that he meets at the bars at the end of the work day when he works away from home. This number just looked suspicious to me (talking about intuition, maybe.) The texts appeared when he was driving to the concert and during the concert. I found out next day that the texts were at the same time when I was trying to get a hold of him regarding the plane tickets. He didn’t answer me, but there were multiple texts exchanged between him and that number during the same time. I also saw that he called this number a couple of weeks prior, when he was home for the weekend, and he called her when he was at the shop doing oil change for his car. I know it was female because I dialed the number and the woman answered. So, I got suspicious.

I found out about Mexican girl also through some snooping. Later I found out that our mutual friends (one of them is a cousin of this girl) also became a bit worried about it. I didn’t say anything at first, but eventually it all became clear that there was something. My friend called her cousin and found out that she was in touch with my H, but denied that there was more than just friendship. Then my friend spoke with my H and he told her the same. Later, when I finally confessed to my friend that I knew more about it and that I thought that it was not just friendship, my friend called her cousin again and told her that what she was doing was wrong. So, eventually, this Mexican girl told my H that she didn’t want to communicate any more. She figured that she was not going to get a sugar daddy after all and it was not worth it for her to lose the respect in her family. My H was mad at our mutual friend for “ruining” his relationship with her cousin. But after some time he came back to her to apologize for putting her in this situation, called himself a “jer& who fell out of love”. I’m still waiting for my apology… I might never get it, since we never discussed this and I don’t know if I ever want to.

Linda, I haven’t been working for almost 3 months now. I’m getting a bit worried about it. And we didn’t split the business. I pulled the stop on this, and it doesn’t look like H is doing anything about it either, at least not yet.