Hi dmr,
I can relate to your frustration. Some advice on my part. If you decide to call a DB coach again give it a month at least between sessions. It usually takes a month or two to see your results. More of the same is what you want.

Also, in a previous post you compared infidelity to alcoholism. I can tell you that alcoholism is usually tied to infidelity. I found a lot of support going to al anon mtgs. It was a great way of GAL and when I walked in those rooms, I felt the comfort and warmth that was missing in my life. Great support system.

Lastly, make your 180 "being patient." Practice it everyday, all day. While in the car, in line, at home. Practice practice practice. It will help you break that old impatient habit and create better relationships with those currently in your life and new people!

Take care of DMR!!


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017