I see so many positives for you. H did get there and everyone was calm and he did mention a lot of positives about the R and what he was feeling and wondered if there was still a spark. And he is willing to meet for breakfast or lunch or something.
I get NONE of this from W. I do not recall her mentioning one positive beyond the children in the last 2-3 months. And we have not met for any lunch or dinner or anything alone since our anniversary trip in Nov. We've been out a couple of times with children and she used to sometimes sit at the table for dinner or breakfast when she was here, but none since she left. I think she took the kids out to dinner last week and I'm sure she will take them somewhere tonight, she's coming to pick them up to spend the night.
Hang in. I think your H really does have feelings and interest in the R and M, but right now he really is confused. Just keep speaking your mind, calmly and you will always have the truth.
