Yours is an interesting story....41 years of marriage is a huge accomplishment. Has your H ever had affairs prior to this or is this something new?
Originally Posted By: Pippa
he told me he will never give her up but he doesnt want to lose me either.
Yeah, I think we'd all like that deal. Are you willing to accept that?
My W pretty much had the same deal for the last year....it wasn't until I drew a line and said no more that she actually changed her tune. We're divorced now, but she wants to reconcile. Funny, our M seemed awesome this past year....except for the fact that she would not stop communicating with OM. And I wasn't willing to live in a M like that any longer. I signed up for a 2 person deal...not 3. You have to decide what you want, and then enforce it.
So what haven't you liked about your role in the M? What are some of your H's complaints? What would you like to work on to make yourself "the W only a fool would leave?"
Originally Posted By: forlovessake
Divorce Busting, Divorce Remedy, and Love Must be Tough all seem like must reads for you!
