Unbelievable

[KarenR]

Hi Pippa,
I am sorry you find yourself here. I imagine it is quite shocking after all these years of marriage, but we talk to clients at all stages of their lifes' as infidelity, etc. happens at all stages of marriage. It doesn't sound like your husband is planning on leaving, but he might want his cake and eat it too. It is great that you are staying calm and pleasant, but it is also important to be doing and saying things that are more likely to get him to recommit to you and walk away from her. Please consider talking to a DB coach to get very specific direction on what is going to be your best plan for a positive outcome for you and your husband. You will find the support, direction and insight you get from your coach to be extremely valuable. Take good care.