Mr bond is right. He asking you to go down to sort it out so he doesn't have to help you both financially or general help. I would go down though and get the assistance you need. That way you don't have to ask him for any help and you can get on with moving forward with or without him I think though getting an L at this stage is a bit too emotional for her at the moment mr bond. Once he moves out, you can do 180 on him without having to worry about money. As I said before he'll soon realise that the grass is not greener on the other side and he'll be the one who's miserable then! He'll get fed up of the OW once he spends more time with her and starts seeing the bad as well as the good things about her. She will start showing her true colours and start annoying him. Hopefully when he does get fed up of her and is miserable then hopefully he will want to come back to you. There's no reason you can't have a bit of hope, it's what keeps me going at times Be the wife he wants to come back to, be stronger and more independent! You can do it! You've got friends that will help you get through this and don't be afraid of asking for help or be too proud.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
