I had a setback on Friday. I requested to take my S3(Autistic) for the weekend to have some one on one time with him. She told me no!
I first asked if she had plans with them and she had none. She told me to take 2 of them or none at all... I was in shock. Our S3 has special needs and strives with individual attention. I tried to explain that i was not playing favorites its just at his age the are things i can do with S3 like swimming, biking, that I cannot do with S1. I believe it would benefit the kids by spending individual time with them. Am I wrong in thinking this way?
Instead of escalating the issue, I told her that was unfair, hugged the boys and walked away. It was a bit selfish of me to do that but I wanted to make a stand in regards to her always telling me what to do. She is still trying to controlling me by our children.
On Sunday I asked to take both kids to the beach for the day and was successfully granted time with them. Had a wonderful day creating memories with them.
When we first agreed to live apart she told me that she would never keep the children from me.. Now I am experiencing my time with them has conditions. She seems angry when I am around, which I donno why. It make it challenging to co-parent this way.
H 37 WAW 32 S 4 (Autistic) S 2 Together 11 years Married 6 Bombshell Dec 1 2012 House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.
