One giant leap forward! - Part 2

[T1000]

T1000
I havent posted to you before, but i follow some folks that do and i ended up here.

Congrats on your interaction, very well done.

you've gotten what you've wanted by acting in a specific way, dont change that way. if its working, why change it?

maintain your current methods, if you must make any changes, make very slight changes, nothing drastic. stay detached.

and as others have said, you clearly stated the rules:

W: What are the necessary steps?
Me: We see a MC. You go to see a therapist...

you must stick to these rules now. the zoo could be a nice afternoon, but dont go back on your word for a single afternoon. That would only show her you are not sticking to your words.

Hi Ken,

Thanks for that!

I like the bit about small changes, nothing drastic.

I wanted to take the kids to the zoo, I wanted to pick them up on that day anyway so it would fit in really well.
The zoo is a month off.
This gives W some time to step forward and do what needs to be done or hang herself.

I agree about not going back on my word only for an afternoon. I have done things in my sitch that appeared very important at the time but didn't go well and really had zero importance.