From your posts, it sounds like you have had it up to there and then some. When you feel you are on the verge of depression, you must look after you.
I won't pretend to know how it feels for you to have to make the decision to move his rear along - mine made that decision for me - but it sounds like it is time, for your sake. Because the alternative is that things stay exactly the same.
If you were OK with that, then that is one thing but you so obviously are not. So, time to change the situation.
So hard to do!
Very best of luck and all wonderful things to you. We are here when you need us and you have nothing but our support.
