Thanks Wiley.....you seem to always be there for me when I need support! Do appreciate you keeping tabs on me at this time.

Nothing really new. Small positives?
H called and left VM Monday (while I was travelling home)
H called twice yesterday (catch up on d and s issues) I called him back both times, we played phone tag.
H just called with more input on d conversation he had with her.

I handled conversation quite well, I think. I was honest with him about d reactions...tears, anger, compassion, loving support, etc. But other than that, I was light, casual, friendly. Asked him some details regarding B-day card for his sis. He filled me in on purchases for his apt. And then, I ended conversation lightly & quickly.

He said he was just keeping me posted. We made a plan to see s on Sunday, so will spend most of the day together (6 hr car ride, round trip). It will be hard, tho....s will really press us on separation and if this means D. He is very pragmatic and cuts to the chase. He's also not afraid to express anger. My maternal instincts are challenging me these days.....this is hard stuff. I know they're great kids, with strong values/morals....and I've gotta let them be.

Anyway, just wanted to update, vent, and selfishly bump up my post for any of you willing advisors/supporters.

Thanks,

Mooka