guess we all try and save ourselves when we feel like we're goin down- that was my try- nmaybe this is his???
This is very insightful nero...I think you are on to something. With my W, it is definitely part of it, but I am convinced that she has to confront all her issues and demons that she has been struggling with all these years. So she had run, but now seems to be looking at them and trying to make peace with them, or something...idk. Still, it is a long process, and seems the more stubborn they are before all this started, the longer it takes.
I think your H has more swirling around than just that, but I think you figured out a good chunk right there.
Hang in there!
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
