T1000 I havent posted to you before, but i follow some folks that do and i ended up here.
Congrats on your interaction, very well done.
you've gotten what you've wanted by acting in a specific way, dont change that way. if its working, why change it?
maintain your current methods, if you must make any changes, make very slight changes, nothing drastic. stay detached.
and as others have said, you clearly stated the rules:
W: What are the necessary steps? Me: We see a MC. You go to see a therapist...
you must stick to these rules now. the zoo could be a nice afternoon, but dont go back on your word for a single afternoon. That would only show her you are not sticking to your words.
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".