So keep your foot out of your mouth and the easiest way to do that is not discuss the R.

Keep working on you, don't sweat the small stuff, she'll let you know if and when she's ready to talk R.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss