I'm really confused by your reply. I have no idea who you are quoting, but it's not me. My W and I do not have children.
My L has told my in no uncertain terms that his primary concern is my financial well being in this matter. I don't believe I said anything insulting about him. Are you referring to the pitbull and leash remark? It was not meant as an insult and I doubt he would take offense given the conversations we have had.
Why are you attacking me?
Yes, I can believe my L doesn't want me to say anything that could be twisted to my disadvantage. So I guess I will give my STBX "more of the same" by not responding in anyway to her first attempt at communication in six months. Makes sense.