I have read through the 37 rules. Obviously I have broken several of them, but I am trying harder every day to follow them. The big one I am working on is trying to avoid calling or texting her first. Especially while I am out of town with the kids. When she texts, I try to keep it simple and to the point. It is hard though, the kids have asked to talk to her or video chat, so that makes it a bit tougher.