Wiley....thanks for dropping by so often.....I really enjoy your support and specific responces.

Freckles! Thanks for the encouragement, and as you are lurking around....feel free to throw out advice,ideas, etc.

Well, H comes home tonight after last business trip This will be our last night here together. I am building up my strength to stay cool, calm, collected, centered.....this takes work for sure. Then he is back on a bus. trip Wed afternoon and I leave Thu to see d. When I get home Monday, he will be out of the house. He plans to work from home Wed morning. He doesn't realize I have to work in the morning myself....but not until 9:30ish. I often work late mornings and afternoons, I work only part-time.

Anway, just wish me the best DBing skills I can muster up right now....I think I am really beginning to detach and understand I am on my own now. Hard, but many of you have experienced this and your situation is a success. I'll keep on working on me...continue in a forward direction and let God's plan take hold.

Cindi