So I had a nice long 4 day weekend out of town visiting some friends in Ohio and Michigan. Took D16 and D15 with me and we toured the University of Michigan campus which they loved, especially D16. She is a Senior in HS this year so the college hunt is beginning. After the tour of U of M she has moved it to the top of her list - now the hard part of getting in!
Betsey - you make really good points. I'm not exactly sure why I feel so guilty about dating more than one woman. Perhaps because I was married for so long and monogamy just seemed the norm (at least for me - not so much for the XW!) Even though I have not been in a marriage for quite a while I guess that concept still stays with me. I am working hard to set those feelings aside and just enjoy the moment and let this scenario play out - however it happens.
So with that here is my current update: Over the weekend Jan got back in touch with me and would really like to see me again. I don't really know why but I agreed (it seems I sometimes have a problem using the word no - especially when it comes to beautiful women!) Plus we do have many similar interests. So we are going out to dinner tonight. I will have my radar up though and I swear if she is unpleasant to any of the wait staff then I will make a definite break with her.
Romy was in touch with me all weekend long. Not constant texting, but probably a couple of times each day. It is nice that she is willing to stay in touch and obviously interested in how I am. She is coming over to my house for dinner on Wednesday night.
On Thursday evening I am meeting Lucy for an outdoor concert. It should be bgreat weather for it as we are expecting a bit of a cooling off in temperatures.
So yes it is going to be a busy week for me but I am going into all three dates with no expectations and just enjoy the evenings with each of them. I'm still a bit out of my comfort zone but sometimes it takes us old dogs a little longer to learn new habits.
