GM, I'm glad a settlement has been reached and I hope and pray that he won't change his mind (again). It's been a very stressful time for you and the boys and I hope that you'll be able to find some peace soon.
I'm so sorry he fought you tooth and nail for many months over this settlement and then finally agree. However, this is how many of the mlcers are, i.e., they want the divorce and yet, fight you tooth and nail all of the way racking up the bills w/the lawyers. It's just plain crazy.
If you need to chat more, you know where to find me. I'm keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.