What made mine? I BECAME A LBS. Even though I knew all along that I didn't want to leave my H, the only thing that completely changed my behavior was him being fed up and leaving me.
It wasn't a game, he was done. That forced me to really examine my behavior for the first time.
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13