One giant leap forward! - Part 2

[T1000]

Thanks Sandi!

So whats next?

I have been in a similar place to this a few times before but never which such confidence and power in the fact that I can be happy either way.

Contact:
I contacted her yesterday and asked how the kids were. She replied and sent me pics and videos over the next few hours and invited me to go to the zoo with them in mid August.
After a while I thanked her for the pics/videos and said I would let her know about the zoo.

It would feel even more strange now than ever to ignore some of her messages unless I really dislike what she has sent me.

What should my stance be with the contact? I was thinking that I would lift it from where is was slightly but tread very cautiously and slowly.


In person:
She has invited to me to go to the zoo with them. It's in mid August and knowing us two anything could happen between now and then.
I will be at her house when I drop off kids/pick them up.
Do I mix it up where sometimes I might stay for a little while (depending on invite) and others I leave quickly because I'm GAL?


I have messed this next bit up many times before because I was too attached and desperate for R. Even though I am quite detached and I'm not desperate at all for R but welcome it as an option I am unclear on what my course is now.