I should have known better. I read Sandi2's rules all the time, especially when I am feeling weak and about to do something stupid. Its just tough. I still care despite the sitch, and she doesnt care at all...at least as far as I can tell. She is focused on moving on without me.

Given how she treated her 1st XH...I am afraid I am going to end in the same boat. She is the kind of girl that when shes done, shes done.


Me-45,W-36
M-12 yrs, T-15 years
SS- 16
Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since
EA/PA OM 2003-2004
Reconciled 2004
May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches
W files D June 2013
I am moving out 26 July 2013