See that's what the problem is and has been. You continue to do things that aren't DB. You had a backslide and that's understandable. Learn from it and move on. In terms of your MIL, you have to understand that regardless of how close you thought you were, your W is her daughter.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.