HI..Mooka..what I meant about anger was if you want ot work on saving your m then if there is underlying anger then you have to work on getting rid of that...and to vent here is great..I work in the courts and see so much anger between couples..but then they are there for a d..and of course I still believe that you can't ever bad mouth your h to your kids...we are all here to save oour m, and frankly I have heard an awful lot of down right nasty stuff come out of these boards towards thier spouses..and that is sure not the right attitude to repair a r.
You sound like you are so strong and going about your life.
