I'm glad you posted, I always wonder how you are doing.
I'm sorry your feelings are hurt by H's actions, I can totally understand why. It shouldn't be a chore to spend time together, it should be something that you both want to do and enjoy.
Are you at a place in your R where you can discuss this with him? Or have you tried already?
Is there a disconnect with your LL's maybe?
I know I'm a quality time kind of person, and H could not understand this. He would think that if we were in the same room, that counted as spending time together. I don't think he ever realized how important it was to me.
And the snapping at you...
Is it possible he was irritated about something else, but took it out on you? It was strange that he did it out of the blue like that.
I hope that you will be able to communicate to your H how you are feeling Gal. You deserve to be treated well, and to have a M that is honest and loving.
You deserve happiness my far away friend
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
