A settlement has finally been reached. I'm on pins and needles until it's signed since xh has changed his mind so many times. I agreed not to move until s16 graduates from HS in exchange for full legal and physical custody, above guideline support and my home with a very small payout to xh when I sell. Xh and I hashed this out ourselves which is why I've been such a mess. Dealing with him is extremely difficult. He's incredibly self-absorbed to the point of being cruel. I forwarded all the emails to my attorney. She had also received them from opposing counseling and advised me to take the offer immediately. It's really unfortunate that I'm getting pretty much what I've asked for all along, but it took over 20k between us and we ended up working it out ourselves. What a waste.
Sadly, S13 wasn't even mentioned. I guess xh doesn't care if he moves away in two years. I don't know what to think of that but will mention it to the therapist so he can monitor their R.
