My Story - Need Help... Is there hope?

[truelovewaits]

Thank you so much for your advice and support. I know I can't reconnect after reading your post. I am down cycling. I thought I was moving forward but the past two days have been a nightmare. She is in all of my thoughts.

She made her decision to leave while we were seperated she once said, but when we were reunited i know she was into the relationship. We were very physical at first, things went through an ebb and flow. We lost it and regained it. She feels she doesn't love me and that she married her brother and that she wasn't happy. I pushed her further and further away by chasing after her.

At this point it seems that all is lost as we don't talk and she never contacts me. She views me in the worse way. Now she is in another relationship and in another state, how do I even begin to show any 180 progress?

In your experience do people like this ever return and initiate contact again?

Also, how do you detach more. I really want to. GAL and all of that doesn't seem to work when things remind me of her often or if I see something that was a gift or photo I down cycle. Any help would be appreciated.

Thank you and I hope that your relationship improves. Looking at your sig BKS it looks like you are doing it all right so please let me know how I can maybe improve my situation.