GALbaby, no real great answers, but just letting you know sometimes I felt like your H. There was no great reason for feeling like it, just a lot of small things put into one big ball of anger. I would go to the in-laws (for example) with no issues: they might say something that I took wrong or I got blamed for, I might have started to get tired (even though it is still early), other things could be on my mind, the in-laws might have started arguing (regular thing) etc. My W simply felt at times it was her duty to stay for a set time, or since we didn't communicate well, she might have wanted to go also but we just didn't get each other wanted that. Someways, I see that I understand my W better by knowing when she was ready to leave, whether I wanted to or not. Maybe she simply didn't seem me that way, or maybe she couldn't care anymore. Sometimes GALbaby, there is simply no reason for the anger/irritation is it just a moment.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
