I just can't get you off of my mind

[Whiterose]

Gay friend may need a reality check as well.....just sayin

Maybe a new hobby is the way to go instead of a divorce? If you're in a situation that you can do exciting things/trips maybe that would be "fun"? But, really depressions is not something you can just "fix" by doing stuff and changing lives.....I just wish all out spouses could "get it". I come from a loooong line of family members that struggle with depression and being we're Italian most of them have buried their heads in the sand which has made me very "you need to get help!" With people. Not always the best approach I know

I met with H sister today, for a pool date with the kids, talked very briefly and she said that when she commented that it was hardest on the kids he disagreed that it was equally as hard on the adults (me and him I'm guessing). I have a feeling he is VERY lonely and misses us. He is renting a room from a couple he works with and when he's in it, apparently, doesn't even have cell service, as he won't tell me, or even his sister, where exactly he's living im sure he's feeling alienated. She also made a odd comment....he told her he could easily come home but that nothing would change, which I'm guessing is me, and I told her that he's not ready and would only leave again. I'm guessing here