One month down, zero casualties

[RosaLinda]

I don't know Raine, but maybe you're right that your H is avoiding figuring things out, and will continue to hold onto everything - you, the boys, and the OW - until you force the issue with him. I don't think you'll have to go so far as to have him actually lose you, but that might speed things up. It's interesting that he might be sensing that you feel that "if it gets to the point that I take action, I may not turn back no matter what he does." I'm still not sure you're right about him shaving. I'll be interested in whether that does continue or not. 

How are you doing with all this craziness and stress all around you though Raine?