Hi Mimi, yes, I will be going. We have booked the plane tickets and I asked off work for those days this AM. I am somewhat excited about it, but also a little anxious/upset about leaving my S for a few more days since we are vacationing like 2 weeks later without S. However, I did not state this to H since I am trying to put H more into my thoughts/actions (if that makes sense). I want H to know he is just as important to me as S is.
Good for you going on the trip, I'm sure the alone time will be beneficial. It's also great that you're working on putting more thoughts & actions into your H. Your S needs you two on the same page for his future, but also when your S becomes of age and leaves the home your H is who will still be there with you daily. So making sure to nurture the relationship with your H just as much and you do the one with your S is a great thing
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
