It really is a long haul...thread #4

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Thanks BF. I actually told him the day before (6/19), but he had ended it with her on 6/13 & provided proof of it. I do believe that she has texted him a few times since then stating that she misses him. He just replies that he understands, but where he is now is where he wants to be. She hasn't asked for him back. I think she is just sad. H has been as well. I know this is a process & he had developed feelings for her. A person just can't turn that off.

When I did tell H about the twins he was shocked & had all the same immediate concerns that I had. He was worried that we would be broke forever, never sleep again, etc. etc. etc.