Not sure where to start

[chl0901]

Hi prayin, I see a lot of similarities in your sitch as in mine as far as my H asking for a divorce and telling me he was physically unattracted to me and there was nothing I could do about it. He wanted me to agree to separate and I refused, telling him I did not want this and would not accept this willingly. My H also is having an EA that is possibly also a PA.

This is a good place to be. It is frustrating being on moderation, but keep posting your thoughts, even if just to vent, because you'll get off moderation faster that way. It also helps me just to let off some steam or stress here! The advice here is probably the opposite of what you want to do or what you think you should do, but the other stuff (begging, crying, pursuing) will just push your W further away.

Good luck with your sitch and keep posting!