It'a nice to "see" you relaxing and drinking strawberry daiquiris with your friend this weekend, T. You mentioned that you "still have some gas in the tank" - I've found things like that, like my solo book-reading trip to Starbucks last week, really help me tank up. The process does work, but when you're trying to trust it, it sure is hard to dig in when the top soil has all washed away.

I agree with you that rH's H's drinking buddy is sort of like an OW. "He chose to spend time with him over you, values his opinion so much, and bends over backward to please him." I read somewhere that an EA can be anyone. I definitely do not think of rH as weak at all. Incredibly strong is more like it!

Hang in there a little longer, T. Frumpy's days are numbered! I promise you. smile


Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17