Hi RT, I've been catching up on your thread and I'm so sorry for what you are going through right now. My heart hurts for you.
I agree with everyone else when they say just make sure to take care of yourself, and a cruise does sound nice (with a few pina coladas, perhaps?)! If not, just maybe a mini-vacation to a nice bed and breakfast or something to unwind and get away for some good pampering time (wine, bubble baths, walking around a cute little town)?
And, yes, I bet they are both getting really fat! But really, after the issues they've already had, there's no way it can be rosy or foggy for that much longer.
Time for YOU! Best wishes!
Me: 27 H: 27 Together: 11, M: 3 S 2 BD: 06/24/13 Living together H: EA - unknown current status Read: DB, 5LL (slowly reading DR) Back and forth we go...