help after wife's infidelity

[KarenR]

As you are finding out, the flowers, cards etc routine don't work. What does work is often counter intuitive to what we think. The DB coaches are experts in getting you on the right track quickly, by helping you know what type of approach would be most effective and what won't work. I am sure you will get support here, but please consider starting out with a coach to get specific direction that is going to be most beneficial. You will also want to discuss your acceptance of your wife seeing the OM while you are still living together, which might backfire on you. Take good care.